D-F Stories
 

David describes how his autodidact tendencies and lifelong “obsessions” with computers, photography, biking, and astrology have shaped his relationships and sense of connection to others.

David reflects on the nature of influence and on who in his life has given him an understanding of passive and active influence. His father sparked his nerdy hobby interest, reflecting on emotional acceptance and openness, and his mother demonstrated quiet perseverance through her hard time in life, and him finding ways to influence her by building joys outside of work. In the end, reflecting on how his French teacher also provided a safe environment and genuine care during the chaos of COVID for him

David talks about his experience with coming out during the 70s and 80s to his parents and how people’s perceptions of what it means to be gay was different then compared to today. He also talks about what it was like to finally be able to marry his partner Todd and what that meant to him.

David shares stories of his experience with the start of the pride parade in Northampton, MA.

After the Vietnam War and having to put his future plans on pause, Dennis found himself in the city of Boston, not New York, working in education, not pursuing his studies at law school and gaining confidence all along the way.

In his story, Dennis Bidwell guides us through his harrowing journey applying for Conscientious Objector (CO) Status during the Vietnam War. Dennis reflect on his coming of age, the culture of the 1960's and 70's, and his experience writing "the most important essay of [his] life"

Diane talks about how her goals and ambitions are constantly changing throughout our lives. Diane and Victoria discuss how they have changed throughout lives, and what has remained constant. The common thread for both women is their strong mothers.

Djenabou talks with Rene about her family. She shares her exceptional relationship that she has with her sister.

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Eddie reflects on his senior year during the pandemic as a time of confusion and inner conflict, despite appearing to have a stable life on the surface. Through isolation and daily meditation, he realized his friendships and sense of identity were not as authentic as he believed, especially due to pressures around masculinity and ego. Ultimately, the experience became a period of deep self-reflection and personal growth that helped him better understand himself.

In this story, Eden’s generous neighbor teaches her a valuable life lesson. The irony of this significant story is unique as the neighbor has no idea of the impact and life shaping this had on Eden.

Edie Kirk shares stories with Elise Boehm about her mother. She starts off by talking about her family’s background and her mother growing up. She then shares a story about how her mother became a nurse and shares other stories that show why she admires her mother so much.

Eileen discusses gender roles present in her childhood in the 1950s and how it caused her to choose her career in teaching. She then goes on to talk about how she was able to be successful in her career choice.

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Elise Boehm talks to Edie Kirk about her decision to study abroad in Cuba and what it was like once she got there. She shares stories about where she went and what she did but also how the people there made her feel more confident speaking Spanish.

Elsa reflects on the lasting impact of her grandfather, who was known for his kindness, empathy, and ability to make everyone feel truly seen and valued. Rather than specific memories, what stands out most is how he made people feel and how he carried that warmth into all his relationships. After his passing, Elsa grew to appreciate him even more through shared stories and the community he touched. Inspired by his legacy, she hopes to carry forward his spirit by creating that same sense of belonging and care for others.

Emily discusses how her culture, once embarrassing to her, has helped her shape into the growing and caring person she is today.

Emily W talks to Emily L about how the feminist movement has shaped her growing up and how the culture of women's liberation influenced her ideologies and life.

Softball was more than just a game for me. It became an outlet that allowed me to stay connected with my family and form new relationships after my parents’ divorce. It was a thread that held me close to everyone during a time of change. The field became more than just a place to play; it was where I found connection, comfort, and continuity. This story is about family, relationships, and all the moments that happened between innings.

Emily recalls taking a major risk in high school by stepping into leadership as theater troupe president and co-directing a competitive one-act play, despite uncertainty and the sacrifice of acting. Over months of creative work and personal challenges, she developed an original production with her peers, ultimately leading the team to a successful performance that won top honors and earned them an individual directing award. Just before advancing further, the competition was canceled due to COVID-19, leaving a sense of loss and disappointment. Despite this, the experience shaped her personal growth and inspired her interest in public health, reinforcing the value of community and taking risks.

Interviewed by Linda, Emma discusses the different types of families she grew up with. She reflects on the family she gained throughout her childhood, while also delving into some of the hardships she faced. Emma explains how her family circumstances have truly shaped the person she is today.

Follow Francesca as she shares her spiritual journey as a follower of Saint
Francis of Assisi, inspiring her devotion to uplifting others around her while
spreading love.

In her interview with Carolyn, Francine reflects on her time in Denmark back when she was a junior in college. She looks back fondly at the many memories and life lessons of her host, Frau Nielsen. Fran reflects on how Frau Nielsen changed her young mind’s conception of what it means to be old.

Freeman remarks on his decision to retire and how retiring has allowed him to grow as a person and start new things after his career. He later elaborates on the ultimate goals and appreciations he has for his life and his message for others when considering the path of their own life: “think of the long ride, not the short journey.”